Lately I have seen more and more how my drive to be perfect is having a toll on my children. I have witnessed them struggling with the same insatiable thirst to meet an invisible, changing standard and I have felt both helpless and ashamed to have given them such a poor model. But how else can I live? This is the only life I know. Yet, in this season I have had the hope that if God is letting me see this problem, He must have a way out!
As I have turned to Him, and begun praying about this, the most amazing new thoughts have come to mind:
“What if I can just own where I am at?”
“What if I can just be who I am in this moment without shame?”
“ What if God accepts me right here and I am the only one who expects more?”
“What if perfection itself is only an illusion?”
“What if obsessing over perfection is a sin that can be confessed and forgiven?”
These thoughts seem in line with what I know of the Bible and God’s character and they come with so much hope! I believe that God has always accepted me just as I am, lumps and all. That is the glory, the amazing grace of the sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross! God does not require perfection from me; instead he offers it to me in Jesus Christ, my Savior. I am filled with joy that, although I am still struggling, I am confident God is delivering me from this prison of perfectionism I have built for myself, one thought at a time!” - JH
As I have turned to Him, and begun praying about this, the most amazing new thoughts have come to mind:
“What if I can just own where I am at?”
“What if I can just be who I am in this moment without shame?”
“ What if God accepts me right here and I am the only one who expects more?”
“What if perfection itself is only an illusion?”
“What if obsessing over perfection is a sin that can be confessed and forgiven?”
These thoughts seem in line with what I know of the Bible and God’s character and they come with so much hope! I believe that God has always accepted me just as I am, lumps and all. That is the glory, the amazing grace of the sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross! God does not require perfection from me; instead he offers it to me in Jesus Christ, my Savior. I am filled with joy that, although I am still struggling, I am confident God is delivering me from this prison of perfectionism I have built for myself, one thought at a time!” - JH
RSS Feed
